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I learnt these from the audio by Tony Robbins on Lessons in Mastery, veggie has given me.. n i took them seriously..
There are 5 elements in life's system:
1) State you are in - mentally & emotionally
2) Questions you ask youself - and what meaning you take from them
3) Values you hold
4) Your beliefs system - certainty of something
5) References - most important thing as these are where your values n beliefs come from.
Success comes around in this way:
1) Consistent increase in quality of life. You need to have decisions (control) to take action. To take action, you need to have standards & beliefs Gain access if you have no resources in your beliefs.
2) All these followed by a commitment to CANI: Constant And Never-ending Improvement. Remember that all these are not for a short period of time, but never-ending incremental improvement in every areas daily.
3) Therefore, there will be growth. And with growth, there will be profit in momentum: Satisfaction & Joy. With these we know we will be happy. And finally therefore, leads to success..
Yes i totally agree that many people always try to improve themselves, but only once in a while when they need to. It is also true that when people see improvement, they stop coz they know they have "suceeded" in something which they want to do. But still, it's only over a short period. But form these lessons, i have learnt that no matter wat, in life, we have to constantly improve ourseleves, incrementally. It's not about taking big steps to improve completely (or tremendously) at one shot. But it is about improving and growing step by step in momentum..
Eg: i wana be swim more, for the first day i swim for 1 hour, for the 2nd day i swim for 1.5 hrs, for the 3rd day i swim for 2 hrs.. n slowly increase my stamina bit by bit.. Imagine if i plunge into the pool swimming for 2 hrs at a shot for the 1st day, ill be breatheless by the time i get up and i wont wana swim for the next day..
This is something so important in every area, every aspect of our lives.. Of coz with all these, we need to have profound knowledge in our decisions and actions. By definition means, information strategies or distinctions that are simple to understand. And with these details locked inside our minds, we can be sure that we are able to have an increase in quality of our lives. And feel much happier as an individual..
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